Thomas a Kempis wrote clearly on this issue:
"Turn your attention upon yourself and beware of judging the deeds of other men, for in judging others a man labours vainly, often makes mistakes, and easily sins; whereas, in judging and taking stock of himself he does something that is always profitable."
In my words - We should all practise more self-reflection! This is what will change and transform our lives.
Living in Grace