Looking at your reflection in the water (on a calm day), or even in the mirror, can be very telling. We can notice things that may surprise us - more wrinkles, less hair, more grey hair, dark rings under the eyes, shining teeth, sparkling eyes, stubble, clean shaven - the list is endless.
However the real test is that sometimes our outward reflection can reveal the state of our heart. That is scary. Have you ever had someone come up to you and say, "what's wrong?" The question catches you by surprise, but you realise that people have seen beyond the facade.
"As water reflects a face, so a man's heart reflects a man." - Proverbs 27:19
"Just as water mirrors your face,so your face mirrors your heart." - The Message
In the end, Jesus was able to tell what was happening in Judas' heart. Judas managed to cover it up for the rest of the disciples, but Jesus could see right through his mask.
This Holy Week I urge us all to take a deep look into our hearts - what is being reflected there? Are there some things that need some changing?
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Tuesday, 31 March 2015
Monday, 30 March 2015
The wonder of a Promise - Lent #24
When we are promised something it can fill us with hope. Even if we have been let down in the past there is a unique optimism in most of us human beings. Promises fill us with the hope of a better tomorrow. They give us the courage to carry on and remind us that God does take note of us.
While reading through Job 22 this morning I came across these wonderf
ul words of Promise. I offer them to us, especially in the context of the death and resurrection of Jesus.
‘Submit to God and be at peace with him;
in this way prosperity will come to you.
22 Accept instruction from his mouth
and lay up his words in your heart.
23 If you return to the Almighty, you will be restored:
if you remove wickedness far from your tent
24 and assign your nuggets to the dust,
your gold of Ophir to the rocks in the ravines,
25 then the Almighty will be your gold,
the choicest silver for you.
26 Surely then you will find delight in the Almighty
and will lift up your face to God.
27 You will pray to him, and he will hear you,
and you will fulfil your vows.
28 What you decide on will be done,
and light will shine on your ways.
29 When people are brought low and you say, “Lift them up!”
then he will save the downcast.
30 He will deliver even one who is not innocent,
who will be delivered through the cleanness of your hands.’
Which verse offers you the most courage and strength today. Read it again and let those words be your prayer today. Shalom.
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While reading through Job 22 this morning I came across these wonderf
ul words of Promise. I offer them to us, especially in the context of the death and resurrection of Jesus.
‘Submit to God and be at peace with him;
in this way prosperity will come to you.
22 Accept instruction from his mouth
and lay up his words in your heart.
23 If you return to the Almighty, you will be restored:
if you remove wickedness far from your tent
24 and assign your nuggets to the dust,
your gold of Ophir to the rocks in the ravines,
25 then the Almighty will be your gold,
the choicest silver for you.
26 Surely then you will find delight in the Almighty
and will lift up your face to God.
27 You will pray to him, and he will hear you,
and you will fulfil your vows.
28 What you decide on will be done,
and light will shine on your ways.
29 When people are brought low and you say, “Lift them up!”
then he will save the downcast.
30 He will deliver even one who is not innocent,
who will be delivered through the cleanness of your hands.’
Which verse offers you the most courage and strength today. Read it again and let those words be your prayer today. Shalom.
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Sunday, 29 March 2015
Blessing in disguise - Lent #23
Have you ever experienced something that appeared to be disastrous, frustrating and even painful, yet in the end it ended up being a 'blessing in disguise?' I guess there are a whole lot of examples that one could think of in this regard:
Romans 8 - "So now there is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus. And because you belong to him, the power of the life-giving Spirit has freed you from the power of sin that leads to death." - v.1-2
"And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them. For God knew his people in advance, and he chose them to become like his Son, so that his Son would be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters. And having chosen them, he called them to come to him. And having called them, he gave them right standing with himself. And having given them right standing, he gave them his glory." v.28-30
Anton St.Maarten - "It is vital that we turn each and every dark tear into a pearl of wisdom, and find the blessing in every curse.”
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- You make a wrong decision that appears disastrous, but leads to something surprising.
- You run late for work, which makes you frustrated, only to discover you missed an accident by a two minutes.
- There is an illness in the family that leads to a greater sense of love and unity in the family - it brings everyone together like never before.
- You have your phone stolen and the insurance company pays you out for a new one.
- A relationship comes to an end, but then you discover a whole lot about yourself?
- You have to endure another evening of load shedding, only to enjoy quality time with the family.
- It seems as though Jesus has been killed on the cross, but 3 days later He rolls back the stone and conquers death.
Romans 8 - "So now there is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus. And because you belong to him, the power of the life-giving Spirit has freed you from the power of sin that leads to death." - v.1-2
"And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them. For God knew his people in advance, and he chose them to become like his Son, so that his Son would be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters. And having chosen them, he called them to come to him. And having called them, he gave them right standing with himself. And having given them right standing, he gave them his glory." v.28-30
Anton St.Maarten - "It is vital that we turn each and every dark tear into a pearl of wisdom, and find the blessing in every curse.”
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Saturday, 28 March 2015
Does the devil make work for idle hands? - Lent #22
Does the devil make work for idle hands? That is the big question for today..... Please answer the question before you carry on reading the blog.
Is it YES or is it NO?!
I always believed the answer was "YES." If you are lazy and idle, then the devil will put some kind of temptation in your way and then you will cave into that desire, because you have nothing better to do. It c
ertainly makes sense and in many ways, it has some biblical support, even though it is not a direct quote from the Scriptures. Take for example the words of Paul and Solomon....
1 Timothy 5:13 - "Besides, they get into
the habit of being idle and going about from house to house. And not
only do they become idlers, but also busybodies who talk nonsense,
saying things they ought not to."
Ecclesiastes 10:18 - "Laziness leads to a sagging roof; idleness leads to a leaky house."
The trouble is that we have blurred the definitions of 'idleness' and 'Sabbath rest' to such a point that when we get an opportunity to 'put down our tools' we are wracked with guilt and we wrongly assume we are being idle. Our good old 'Protesant work ethic' kicks in and we push against the notion of being 'idle.'
So, in the end, what usually happens is that we disobey the commandment of God, in favour of the lie of the world. The world urges us to be busy and we fall into the trap. I would go so far as to suggest that the devil is operating on both ends of the spectrum. He loves it when we are 'idle' because he will make work for us, but the devil delights in our busyness too. When we are so consumed by our work and get caught up in the rush of things, we have less time for Jesus. Either way the devil makes it hard for us.
I urge us all to be aware of his cunning plan. This Easter period, why don't you wrestle with finding the balance in life. Productivity and Sabbath rest. God honours both of these!
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Which road to take? - Lent #20
Proverbs 22:5-6 - "Corrupt people walk a thorny, treacherous road;
whoever values life will avoid it.
6 Direct your children onto the right path,
and when they are older, they will not leave it."
As a father and pastor I have the great responsibility of directing my children and congregation onto the paths of God. It is not as easy as it may seem. We all have our own ideas and personalities (myself included) and so there comes a time when you have to show the WAY and then let people decide for themselves.
Of course it is equally important to keep walking the right PATH so that others may see that you still believe you chose correctly. The treacherous road always seems to appeal in the beginning, but soon one comes to realise that it is the wrong road. The thorns cut deeply into our souls and we are left ruing our wrong choices.
As we journey towards the Cross and empty Tomb, can I urge us to evaluate which path we are on. Does your road lead to peace, hope and grace? If not, then perhaps you are on the wrong road.
"God always gives His best to those who leave the choice with him." - Jim Elliot
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and when they are older, they will not leave it."
As a father and pastor I have the great responsibility of directing my children and congregation onto the paths of God. It is not as easy as it may seem. We all have our own ideas and personalities (myself included) and so there comes a time when you have to show the WAY and then let people decide for themselves.
Of course it is equally important to keep walking the right PATH so that others may see that you still believe you chose correctly. The treacherous road always seems to appeal in the beginning, but soon one comes to realise that it is the wrong road. The thorns cut deeply into our souls and we are left ruing our wrong choices.
As we journey towards the Cross and empty Tomb, can I urge us to evaluate which path we are on. Does your road lead to peace, hope and grace? If not, then perhaps you are on the wrong road.
"God always gives His best to those who leave the choice with him." - Jim Elliot
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Friday, 27 March 2015
When is enough ENOUGH? - Lent #21
I was listening to 'Beat the Bank' on East Coast Radio this morning. It is a show where you get an opportunity to open 15 'bank vaults' - each one has a monetary prize inside, but there are some vaults that trigger an alarm system and you lose all your money. It is a game of chance and the more vaults you open the more money you stand to win - and also to lose.
Anyway, I was so impressed with one of the contestants this morning, because after she had won a certain amount of cash, she said, "I have enough thanks" and she walked away with the prize. She could have chanced her arm for another chance, but she was content with what she had. This is an admirable trait to have. Often we think we need more! We are NOT content with what we have and so we desire more and more, until eventually our greed destroys us.
"Don't wear yourself out trying to get rich.
Be wise enough to know when to quit.
In the blink of an eye wealth disappears,
for it will sprout wings
and fly away like an eagle." - Proverbs 23:4-5
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Anyway, I was so impressed with one of the contestants this morning, because after she had won a certain amount of cash, she said, "I have enough thanks" and she walked away with the prize. She could have chanced her arm for another chance, but she was content with what she had. This is an admirable trait to have. Often we think we need more! We are NOT content with what we have and so we desire more and more, until eventually our greed destroys us.
"Don't wear yourself out trying to get rich.
Be wise enough to know when to quit.
In the blink of an eye wealth disappears,
for it will sprout wings
and fly away like an eagle." - Proverbs 23:4-5
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Thursday, 26 March 2015
Expect the bump in the road!
So yesterday I blogged about the new speed hump outside our church. I can sit in my office and hear the people hit the bump at a ferocious speed - that is despite us putting bright orange cones on the road, as we wait for the municipality to paint the bump.
Anyway, it has got me thinking about the many 'bumps' that appear on the roads of life. More often than not they surprise us - they come with no warning what so ever and we have to deal with the after effects of the shock. As Christ-followers we need to be prepared for these bumps in the road - they are there and we need to keep our eyes open. And even if we are caught unawares then I urge us to hold on and ride out the impact.
2 Corinthians 4:17 - For our present troubles are small and won’t last very long. Yet they produce for us a glory that vastly outweighs them and will last forever!
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Anyway, it has got me thinking about the many 'bumps' that appear on the roads of life. More often than not they surprise us - they come with no warning what so ever and we have to deal with the after effects of the shock. As Christ-followers we need to be prepared for these bumps in the road - they are there and we need to keep our eyes open. And even if we are caught unawares then I urge us to hold on and ride out the impact.
1 Thessalonians 3:4 - Even while we were with you, we warned you that troubles would soon come—and they did, as you well know.
2 Corinthians 4:17 - For our present troubles are small and won’t last very long. Yet they produce for us a glory that vastly outweighs them and will last forever!
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Tuesday, 24 March 2015
Read the signs!
The local municipality have finally built a speed bump on the main road outside our Church entrance. It is about time as people use this road as a race track most days. I think we have been asking the authorities for this "hump" for around 9 years now - better late than never I suppose.
What has been fascinating to note is that the white lines haven't been painted on the bump as yet (they are waiting for the tar to set first) and so people are hitting the bump at their usual speed! Needless to say there have been lots of surprised drivers heading along Cleland road and I am sure there has been a fair amount of cursing too!
But here is the thing. There are clearly marked SIGNS on either side of the bumps, warning people of the new bumps. In fact, the SIGNS were put up over a week ago, preparing people for this new change, but people have ignored the signs. It is only as they have hit the speed bumps at some speed, that they take note of the signs.
People are people. We are all the same...the signs are there for our protection and to help us out, but when we choose to ignore them, we land up with whiplash!
So, what signs are you ignoring today?
What is happening in your spiritual life that is acting as a warning sign?
What is happening in your family that is shouting "Take Note" or what signs are you seeing at work or at school?
Please can I urge us all to take note of the signs that God places before us. They are not signs to be a "kill joy" but rather to protect us and prosper us. As we near Holy Week, Jesus fulfilled many of the signs of the prophets, but the people chose to ignore the signs.
John 12:27 - "But despite all the miraculous signs Jesus had done, most of the people still did not believe in him."
Let's not do the same.
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What has been fascinating to note is that the white lines haven't been painted on the bump as yet (they are waiting for the tar to set first) and so people are hitting the bump at their usual speed! Needless to say there have been lots of surprised drivers heading along Cleland road and I am sure there has been a fair amount of cursing too!
But here is the thing. There are clearly marked SIGNS on either side of the bumps, warning people of the new bumps. In fact, the SIGNS were put up over a week ago, preparing people for this new change, but people have ignored the signs. It is only as they have hit the speed bumps at some speed, that they take note of the signs.
People are people. We are all the same...the signs are there for our protection and to help us out, but when we choose to ignore them, we land up with whiplash!
So, what signs are you ignoring today?
What is happening in your spiritual life that is acting as a warning sign?
What is happening in your family that is shouting "Take Note" or what signs are you seeing at work or at school?
Please can I urge us all to take note of the signs that God places before us. They are not signs to be a "kill joy" but rather to protect us and prosper us. As we near Holy Week, Jesus fulfilled many of the signs of the prophets, but the people chose to ignore the signs.
John 12:27 - "But despite all the miraculous signs Jesus had done, most of the people still did not believe in him."
Let's not do the same.
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Monday, 23 March 2015
Turning a blind eye - Lent #19
William Wilberforce once remarked, "You may choose to look the other way but you can never say again that you did not know.” We live in a society that has become good at 'turning a blind eye' to certain things. Most of the time it is because people just don't want to get involved or feel inadequate to help others in tough circumstances. The thing is that Jesus never turned a blind eye to anyone or anything. It was not part of his nature.
Many years before Jesus even stepped onto the face of the earth, Solomon wrote something that had to do with the eyes and the heart...
"People may be right in their own eyes,
but the Lord examines their heart.
3 The Lord is more pleased when we do what is right and just
than when we offer him sacrifices.
than when we offer him sacrifices.
4 Haughty eyes, a proud heart,
and evil actions are all sin.
and evil actions are all sin.
5 Good planning and hard work lead to prosperity,
but hasty shortcuts lead to poverty.
but hasty shortcuts lead to poverty.
6 Wealth created by a lying tongue is a vanishing mist and a deadly trap." - Proverbs 21:2-6
"I try to live my life every day in the present, and try not to turn a blind eye to injustice and need."
Let's take up the challenge not to turn a blind eye to things that are immoral, unjust and evil.
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Susan Sarandon
Let's take up the challenge not to turn a blind eye to things that are immoral, unjust and evil.
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Sunday, 22 March 2015
Imitating what we see
"Imitate God, therefore, in everything you do, because you are his dear children." - Ephesians 5:1
Kids are very good at imitating what they see from us as parents, and what they see/hear around them. Sometimes this fills you with much pride and you catch yourself thinking, "wow, that's my boy!"
However, there are times when we see/hear things that make us cringe and we wonder where they got that behaviour from. In truth, they probably saw something similar in us or from their peers. When this happens we are left thinking, "Whose child is this!?"
The Apostle Paul reminds us that we are 'imitators' of someone or something. It is just up to us to choose to imitate Jesus. When we make this choose we will start to 'live a life filled with love'.
So who are you imitating today?
Ephesians 5:1-2 (Living Bible)
Follow God’s example in everything you do just as a much loved child imitates his father. 2 Be full of love for others, following the example of Christ who loved you and gave himself to God as a sacrifice to take away your sins. And God was pleased, for Christ’s love for you was like sweet perfume to him.
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Kids are very good at imitating what they see from us as parents, and what they see/hear around them. Sometimes this fills you with much pride and you catch yourself thinking, "wow, that's my boy!"
However, there are times when we see/hear things that make us cringe and we wonder where they got that behaviour from. In truth, they probably saw something similar in us or from their peers. When this happens we are left thinking, "Whose child is this!?"
The Apostle Paul reminds us that we are 'imitators' of someone or something. It is just up to us to choose to imitate Jesus. When we make this choose we will start to 'live a life filled with love'.
So who are you imitating today?
Ephesians 5:1-2 (Living Bible)
Follow God’s example in everything you do just as a much loved child imitates his father. 2 Be full of love for others, following the example of Christ who loved you and gave himself to God as a sacrifice to take away your sins. And God was pleased, for Christ’s love for you was like sweet perfume to him.
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Friday, 20 March 2015
You need to plant something
"Sluggards do not plough in season;so at harvest time they look but find nothing." - Proverbs 20:4
If we aren't disciplined to do the small, important things, then we can't expect to reap any of the rewards later. The trouble is that we live in a quick fix society and we often want things without being willing to put the hard effort into the preparation. Any farmer will laugh at you if you expect to reap a harvest without actually planting seeds. You NEED to plant something!
The same applies in the rest of our lives. If we want a meaningful relationship with God, then we need to plant some seeds. If we desire a healthy relationship with our family/friends, we need to do the small important things first. If we want to reap the harvest of competing in a sports event, we have to set the alarm clock to wake up early to train.
I think you get it, don't you? You MUST plant something!
So, what seeds are you planting today?
What harvest are you longing for next season?
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If we aren't disciplined to do the small, important things, then we can't expect to reap any of the rewards later. The trouble is that we live in a quick fix society and we often want things without being willing to put the hard effort into the preparation. Any farmer will laugh at you if you expect to reap a harvest without actually planting seeds. You NEED to plant something!
The same applies in the rest of our lives. If we want a meaningful relationship with God, then we need to plant some seeds. If we desire a healthy relationship with our family/friends, we need to do the small important things first. If we want to reap the harvest of competing in a sports event, we have to set the alarm clock to wake up early to train.
I think you get it, don't you? You MUST plant something!
So, what seeds are you planting today?
What harvest are you longing for next season?
Living in Grace
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Thursday, 19 March 2015
Which way to turn?
Have you found yourself in a situation where you haven't known which way to turn? In a sense you have felt lost or uncertain and the longer the situation carries on for, the harder things become?
Well, if this is you, then take heart because God knows how you feel. Take a read of these words from Psalm 116. Take note of how you are not alone in your situation.
Well, if this is you, then take heart because God knows how you feel. Take a read of these words from Psalm 116. Take note of how you are not alone in your situation.
"I love God because he listened to me, listened as I begged for
mercy. He listened so intently as I laid out my case before him. Death stared
me in the face, hell was hard on my heels. Up against it, I didn’t know which
way to turn; then I called out to God for
help: “Please, God!” I cried out. “Save my life!”
God is gracious—it is he who makes things right,
our most compassionate God. God takes the side of
the helpless; when I was at the end of my rope, he saved me." - Psalm 116:1-6
May you find solace in the presence of Christ. If you don't know which way to turn, look a moment to look up and ask God for directions.
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Tuesday, 17 March 2015
Prayers for today
On this day, St.Patrick's Day, it is good to remember the wonderful legacy he left for the Christians in Ireland (and the beyond). To remember the impact of this remarkable man, here are two prayers to reflect on. May you enjoy then and be blessed by them. Please feel free to forward them to someone who may need them today.
"May God give you...
For every storm, a rainbow,
For every tear, a smile,
For every care, a promise,
And a blessing in each trial.
For every problem life sends,
A faithful friend to share,
For every sigh, a sweet song,
And an answer for each prayer."
"God to enfold me,
God to surround me,
God in my speaking,
God in my thinking.
God in my sleeping,
God in my waking,
God in my watching,
God in my hoping.
God in my life,
God in my lips,
God in my soul,
God in my heart.
God in my sufficing,
God in my slumber,
God in mine ever-living soul,
God in mine eternity."
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"May God give you...
For every storm, a rainbow,
For every tear, a smile,
For every care, a promise,
And a blessing in each trial.
For every problem life sends,
A faithful friend to share,
For every sigh, a sweet song,
And an answer for each prayer."
"God to enfold me,
God to surround me,
God in my speaking,
God in my thinking.
God in my sleeping,
God in my waking,
God in my watching,
God in my hoping.
God in my life,
God in my lips,
God in my soul,
God in my heart.
God in my sufficing,
God in my slumber,
God in mine ever-living soul,
God in mine eternity."
Living in Grace
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Monday, 16 March 2015
What's the point? - Lent #18
What's the point of it all?
What's the point of doing the daily routine - waking up, getting dressed, making food, eating it, washing up, brushing teeth, going to work, drinking coffee, fetching and carrying kids, doing homework, making supper, eating supper, washing up, brushing teeth, going to sleep.......
.....repeat ad nauseam...
In her awesome song, 'Setting up the Pins', Sara Groves reminds us that we can find God in the routine of our lives. She compares our daily routine to a game of 'Ten-Pin bowling' - asking the very real question: "What's the point of setting the pins up and then knocking them down again?" There seems no point!
"Everyone,
everywhere, some way, some how
Are setting up the pins for knocking em down
It can feel simple but it's really profound...
My grandmother had a working song
Hummed it low all day long
Sing for the beauty that's to be found
In setting up the pins for knocking em down..." - Sara Groves
Are setting up the pins for knocking em down
It can feel simple but it's really profound...
My grandmother had a working song
Hummed it low all day long
Sing for the beauty that's to be found
In setting up the pins for knocking em down..." - Sara Groves
However, as Christ-followers, we understand that there is always a point to our existence. We are created to glorify God and to worship Him through our lives. So, they may not seem like much of a point in doing all the "routine stuff", but if we do these things to honour God, then we are exalting God in all circumstances.
Colossians 3:23-24 - "Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving."
So, perhaps the next time we are tempted to say, "what's the point?" may we realise that there is always a point with God.
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Sunday, 15 March 2015
All at Sea - Lent #17
Job was all at sea! He didn't know whether he was coming or going. He couldn't take the situation anymore and his friends advice wasn't really helping. Sometimes we also feel "all at sea." We don't know whether we are coming or going and nothing seems to help. Job expresses his anguish in the following way...
Job 19:21-22
“Have pity on me, my friends, have pity,
for the hand of God has struck me.
Why do you pursue me as God does?
Will you never get enough of my flesh?
If you are feeling all at sea at the moment (or if you know someone who is battling) then the following words from Solomon will offer us some hope.
Proverbs 18:10 - The name of the Lord is a fortified tower; the righteous run to it and are safe.
In the midst of the storms of life run to the safety of the Lord.
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Job 19:21-22
“Have pity on me, my friends, have pity,
for the hand of God has struck me.
Why do you pursue me as God does?
Will you never get enough of my flesh?
If you are feeling all at sea at the moment (or if you know someone who is battling) then the following words from Solomon will offer us some hope.
Proverbs 18:10 - The name of the Lord is a fortified tower; the righteous run to it and are safe.
In the midst of the storms of life run to the safety of the Lord.
Living in Grace
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Saturday, 14 March 2015
Commit your ways to God - Lent #16
Proverbs 16:1-3 - "To humans belong the plans of the heart,
but from the Lord comes
2 All a person’s ways seem pure to them,
but motives are weighed by the Lord.
but motives are weighed by the Lord.
3 Commit to the Lord whatever you do,
and he will establish your plans."
Someone once said, "Life happens while we are busy making plans."
It is true that sometimes we can over complicate and over-plan our lives, but it is a great discipline to at least have some direction for our lives. We may not succeed in some things if we have failed to plan. Planning is a vitual discipline to practise in all spheres of life.
As Christ-followers we need to remember that God wants to be included in our planning process. God doesn't want to be tagged on in the end just as some kind of last resort. So whatever you are planning to do next, make sure that you have consulted your Heavenly Father first.
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and he will establish your plans."
Someone once said, "Life happens while we are busy making plans."
It is true that sometimes we can over complicate and over-plan our lives, but it is a great discipline to at least have some direction for our lives. We may not succeed in some things if we have failed to plan. Planning is a vitual discipline to practise in all spheres of life.
As Christ-followers we need to remember that God wants to be included in our planning process. God doesn't want to be tagged on in the end just as some kind of last resort. So whatever you are planning to do next, make sure that you have consulted your Heavenly Father first.
Living in Grace
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Friday, 13 March 2015
Pressing in close - Lent #15
Sometimes when our kids are sick they love to jump into bed and snuggle up to us. It doesn't happen as much any more, but on the odd occasion we notice they still like to do it. I believe it has to do with 'the human touch' - when we are not feeling great we need the comfort of another person. It doesn't change our situation, but somehow it makes our illness seem bearable.
So when we are feeling spiritually 'out of sorts', why do we not do the same with Jesus? Why is it that we tend to withdraw from his presence instead of pressing into God's care? I recognise that we can't 'feel' God in the same way as we can experience the touch of another human being, but we can still rest in His presence. God is definitely there for us, in every situation - we need to believe in that promise.
Psalm 73:28 - "But as for me, it is good to be near God. I have made the Sovereign Lord my refuge; I will tell of all your deeds."
Proverbs 17:17 - "A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity."
Living in Grace
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So when we are feeling spiritually 'out of sorts', why do we not do the same with Jesus? Why is it that we tend to withdraw from his presence instead of pressing into God's care? I recognise that we can't 'feel' God in the same way as we can experience the touch of another human being, but we can still rest in His presence. God is definitely there for us, in every situation - we need to believe in that promise.
Psalm 73:28 - "But as for me, it is good to be near God. I have made the Sovereign Lord my refuge; I will tell of all your deeds."
Proverbs 17:17 - "A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity."
Living in Grace
D3LM3
Thursday, 12 March 2015
Stiff-necked - Lent #14
Have you ever woken up in the morning with a sore neck? It feels stiff and even just moving it a little bit is painful - you try to move it from side to side, but it doesn't seem to help. Can you relate to this in anyway?
Well, God refers to the Israelites as a 'stiff-necked' people in a few places in the Bible. Take Exodus 32:9 as an example - “I have seen these people,” the Lord said to Moses, “and they are a stiff-necked people." I believe that God refers to them as 'stiff-necked' because they are unwilling to turn from their sins - they are stubborn and selfish. It is almost as if the Israelites have woken up and their necks are "frozen" in one place - and they are now looking in the wrong direction. They seem unwilling to change their mindset and to look to God.
We can also be stiff-necked at times. We can also be stubborn and self-centred. We too can keep looking in the wrong direction. We too can look to our own devices and not to God.
Proverbs 16:18-20
18 Pride goes before destruction,
a haughty spirit before a fall.
Well, God refers to the Israelites as a 'stiff-necked' people in a few places in the Bible. Take Exodus 32:9 as an example - “I have seen these people,” the Lord said to Moses, “and they are a stiff-necked people." I believe that God refers to them as 'stiff-necked' because they are unwilling to turn from their sins - they are stubborn and selfish. It is almost as if the Israelites have woken up and their necks are "frozen" in one place - and they are now looking in the wrong direction. They seem unwilling to change their mindset and to look to God.
We can also be stiff-necked at times. We can also be stubborn and self-centred. We too can keep looking in the wrong direction. We too can look to our own devices and not to God.
Proverbs 16:18-20
18 Pride goes before destruction,
a haughty spirit before a fall.
19 Better to be lowly in spirit along with the oppressed
than to share plunder with the proud.
than to share plunder with the proud.
20 Whoever gives heed to instruction prospers,
and blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord.
and blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord.
So the next time you wake up in the morning with a stiff neck ask yourself, "Am I a stubborn person? Am I willing to trust in God's ways and to fit in with his plans?"
Living in Grace
D3LM3
Wednesday, 11 March 2015
Bearer of Good news - Lent #13
"Light in a messenger’s eyes brings joy to the heart,
and good news gives health to the bones." - Proverbs 15:30
The story of Easter is always about good news. Jesus Christ is the ultimate messenger and he comes into our world with 'light in his eyes.' The message of grace and love brings joy to our heart and gives us new life. I am not sure about you, but I always find that 'good news' gives health to my weary soul. It also brings a spring to our step and makes life seem so much better :)
But, when was the last time you heard some good news?
Is it possible that you could be the bearer of good news for some one else today?
and good news gives health to the bones." - Proverbs 15:30
The story of Easter is always about good news. Jesus Christ is the ultimate messenger and he comes into our world with 'light in his eyes.' The message of grace and love brings joy to our heart and gives us new life. I am not sure about you, but I always find that 'good news' gives health to my weary soul. It also brings a spring to our step and makes life seem so much better :)
But, when was the last time you heard some good news?
Is it possible that you could be the bearer of good news for some one else today?
"Everyone
has inside of him a piece of good news. The good news is that you don't
know how great you can be! How much you can love! What you can
accomplish! And what your potential is!" -Anne Frank
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Tuesday, 10 March 2015
I know the feeling - Lent #12
Sometimes friends try to console us by offering us these words of comfort, "I know how you feel?" or even "I know the feeling!" In some cases they may really "know the feelings" that we are experiencing, but more often than not, they don't. Job's friends certainly weren't able to tell him that they understood what he was going through, because they had never experienced the kind of pain and loss that he had.
If one reads the comments of Eliphaz in Job 15, one can't but think, "thank goodness this guy isn't my friend!" His words don't offer much solace and they certainly don't even attempt to convey "I know how you feel!"
"You own mouth condemns you, not mine;
you own lips testify against you." (v.6)
"Do you listen in on God's council.
Do you limit wisdom to yourself." (v.8)
I am convinced that we don't always need someone to tell us that they know how we feel, but rather that we need people who are willing just to walk along side us and to listen to our troubles.
Action: Pray for someone who is going through a tough time today. Offer them the solace of Christ and the encouragement of the scriptures. Send them an encouraging verse right now and then say a prayer for them, as you send it.
Roger Ebert - "I believe that Empathy is the most essential quality of civilisation."
Living in Grace
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If one reads the comments of Eliphaz in Job 15, one can't but think, "thank goodness this guy isn't my friend!" His words don't offer much solace and they certainly don't even attempt to convey "I know how you feel!"
"You own mouth condemns you, not mine;
you own lips testify against you." (v.6)
"Do you listen in on God's council.
Do you limit wisdom to yourself." (v.8)
I am convinced that we don't always need someone to tell us that they know how we feel, but rather that we need people who are willing just to walk along side us and to listen to our troubles.
Action: Pray for someone who is going through a tough time today. Offer them the solace of Christ and the encouragement of the scriptures. Send them an encouraging verse right now and then say a prayer for them, as you send it.
Roger Ebert - "I believe that Empathy is the most essential quality of civilisation."
Living in Grace
D3LM3
Monday, 9 March 2015
Lent #11 - Refreshing others
"A generous person will prosper, he who refreshes others will himself be refreshed." - Proverbs 11:25
In the rush of our lives, we often miss the opportunities to encounter other people and to offer them God's grace. We are so introspective that we don't even notice the needs of those around us. Jesus encouraged us to 'love our neighbours as we love ourselves', which points us to look around at our 'neighbours' and to pay attention to them.
When we offer God's love and grace to others we end up refreshing them and encouraging them on the journey of faith. In doing this, we also end up being refreshed too.
“…the everyday practice of being with other people is the practice of loving the neighbour as the self.” – Barbara Brown Taylor
Action: Take a quick look around your circle of influence today. Notice who is around you and what some of their needs might be. Is there a way that you might be able to refresh them with love and grace today?
Living in Grace
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In the rush of our lives, we often miss the opportunities to encounter other people and to offer them God's grace. We are so introspective that we don't even notice the needs of those around us. Jesus encouraged us to 'love our neighbours as we love ourselves', which points us to look around at our 'neighbours' and to pay attention to them.
When we offer God's love and grace to others we end up refreshing them and encouraging them on the journey of faith. In doing this, we also end up being refreshed too.
“…the everyday practice of being with other people is the practice of loving the neighbour as the self.” – Barbara Brown Taylor
Action: Take a quick look around your circle of influence today. Notice who is around you and what some of their needs might be. Is there a way that you might be able to refresh them with love and grace today?
Living in Grace
D3LM3
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Sunday, 8 March 2015
One size fits all.... or maybe not! (Lent #10)
I took the boys to get their Rugby boots this weekend and after a few attempts we managed to sort them out. I was just reflecting on how they all have different sized feet, so they all need different sized boots. I know it sounds obvious, but I need to say it out loud - "one size would NOT have fitted all 3 of them."
Sometimes we try and fashion our worship services, faith experiences and even devotional habits around a "one size fits all" mentality. This is not going to work. We are a all created uniquely and so we will respond to God in slightly different ways. Of course we can worship in community and still experience the same Spirit of Christ, but how we respond to Jesus will be unique to all of us.
This is perhaps why there are a number of different denominations and styles of worship in the Christian faith. Some of us may prefer contemporary songs, why others enjoy hymns. Some may prefer quieter, contemplative worship, while others like more expressive styles. This doesn't mean that we don't worship the same Messiah, it just means that we don't have to fit into each others 'boots.'
At the end of the day, my boys will all play the game of Rugby, but they will play in their own boots. One size can't fit all...
Job 11:7-10
“Can you fathom the mysteries of God?
Can you probe the limits of the Almighty?
8 They are higher than the heavens above—what can you do?
They are deeper than the depths below—what can you know?
9 Their measure is longer than the earth
and wider than the sea.
Living in Grace
D3LM3
Sometimes we try and fashion our worship services, faith experiences and even devotional habits around a "one size fits all" mentality. This is not going to work. We are a all created uniquely and so we will respond to God in slightly different ways. Of course we can worship in community and still experience the same Spirit of Christ, but how we respond to Jesus will be unique to all of us.
This is perhaps why there are a number of different denominations and styles of worship in the Christian faith. Some of us may prefer contemporary songs, why others enjoy hymns. Some may prefer quieter, contemplative worship, while others like more expressive styles. This doesn't mean that we don't worship the same Messiah, it just means that we don't have to fit into each others 'boots.'
At the end of the day, my boys will all play the game of Rugby, but they will play in their own boots. One size can't fit all...
Job 11:7-10
“Can you fathom the mysteries of God?
Can you probe the limits of the Almighty?
8 They are higher than the heavens above—what can you do?
They are deeper than the depths below—what can you know?
9 Their measure is longer than the earth
and wider than the sea.
Living in Grace
D3LM3
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Saturday, 7 March 2015
Lent #9 - Duplicity
In this chapter, Solomon compares the acts of a person with integrity and then someone who is unfaithful and unrighteous.
"The integrity of the upright guides them, but
the unfaithful are destroyed by their duplicity." - Proverbs 11:3
"Through the blessing of the upright a city is exalted,but by the mouth of the wicked it is destroyed." - Proverbs 11:11
He mentions the word 'Duplicity' in these thoughts - which means being double minded or leading a double life. In order to be a Christ-follower we need to commit all our ways to the Lord. We can't lead a double life, pretending to be someone we are not. In the end, people who lead a double life end up tripping over their own lies.
"Dishonesty, Cowardice and Duplicity are never impulsive." - George A. Knight
As we journey towards the Cross I invite you into a 'tough' reflection. Ask yourself if there is anything of a "double Life" in your heart. Do you pretend to be someone you are not? It is very tiring trying to be two different people. Be yourself and allow Christ to love you through His grace.
Living in Grace
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"The integrity of the upright guides them, but
the unfaithful are destroyed by their duplicity." - Proverbs 11:3
"Through the blessing of the upright a city is exalted,but by the mouth of the wicked it is destroyed." - Proverbs 11:11
He mentions the word 'Duplicity' in these thoughts - which means being double minded or leading a double life. In order to be a Christ-follower we need to commit all our ways to the Lord. We can't lead a double life, pretending to be someone we are not. In the end, people who lead a double life end up tripping over their own lies.
"Dishonesty, Cowardice and Duplicity are never impulsive." - George A. Knight
As we journey towards the Cross I invite you into a 'tough' reflection. Ask yourself if there is anything of a "double Life" in your heart. Do you pretend to be someone you are not? It is very tiring trying to be two different people. Be yourself and allow Christ to love you through His grace.
Living in Grace
D3LM3
Thursday, 5 March 2015
A lesson from the Fire
I have been down in Cape Town this week for some meetings - it has certainly been an interesting time and it is amazing how 3 days can make a difference in your world. Firstly, I arrived on Monday as Cape Town was burning - well, the forests around the city were burning and it was a scary thing. As I drove up Ou Kaapse Weg, smoke, flames and ash were evident everywhere. It was like driving through a movie scene.
Then on Tuesday, Cape Town was literally the hottest place on the planet - at 42 degrees things were 'hotting' up all over the Cape. It was the hottest day in Cape Town in 100 years. It was surreal to be in the midst of record breaking temperatures and disaster zones.
The one reflection that I take from these drastic events was a comment I heard on one of the local radio stations. One of the environmentalists was speaking about the 'positives' of the fires. He remarked that despite the obvious loss of property, animal life and forests, the rest of the environment will bounce back from the fires. The fires will actually aid in new growth of the fynbos and for the environment, in the long term. At present it looks like 'hell', but in the future the area will be fine.
It made me think about how we sometimes need to go through 'fire' in our lives/faith and how we often lament these moments. I know that I don't always see the bigger picture, but when we place our trust in God's hands, he always brings incredible new growth from the 'devastation.' So, the next time you face a firing trial, just hold on to what you can and then ask God to give you insight into his plans for the future.
Isaiah 43:2-3
When you walk through the fire,
you will not be burned;
the flames will not set you ablaze.
3 For I am the Lord your God,
the Holy One of Israel, your Savior;
God bless you
Living in Grace
D3LM3
Then on Tuesday, Cape Town was literally the hottest place on the planet - at 42 degrees things were 'hotting' up all over the Cape. It was the hottest day in Cape Town in 100 years. It was surreal to be in the midst of record breaking temperatures and disaster zones.
The one reflection that I take from these drastic events was a comment I heard on one of the local radio stations. One of the environmentalists was speaking about the 'positives' of the fires. He remarked that despite the obvious loss of property, animal life and forests, the rest of the environment will bounce back from the fires. The fires will actually aid in new growth of the fynbos and for the environment, in the long term. At present it looks like 'hell', but in the future the area will be fine.
It made me think about how we sometimes need to go through 'fire' in our lives/faith and how we often lament these moments. I know that I don't always see the bigger picture, but when we place our trust in God's hands, he always brings incredible new growth from the 'devastation.' So, the next time you face a firing trial, just hold on to what you can and then ask God to give you insight into his plans for the future.
Isaiah 43:2-3
When you walk through the fire,
you will not be burned;
the flames will not set you ablaze.
3 For I am the Lord your God,
the Holy One of Israel, your Savior;
God bless you
Living in Grace
D3LM3
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