We often get so caught up in 'what we want' that we forget to discern what God wants or needs from us. We live in a world that encourages us to take what we want, or to expect things to go our way, that when things don't, then we get upset with God.
"The world with all its wanting, wanting, wanting, is on the way out - but whoever does what God wants is set for eternity." - 1 John 2:17
May the Spirit of God teach us to discern what the heart of God wants.